• Dr. Mary Graves


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    Mary is a nationally acclaimed preacher whose sermons continually draw people into God’s word and out into service. “I feel like she is speaking just to me,” is the comment of many.

    Mary received her Masters of Divinity from Fuller Theological Seminary and her doctorate in spirituality from San Francisco Theological Seminary. She received the seminary’s Diploma in the Art of Spiritual Direction and currently serves as a spiritual director. She began her pastorate at Trinity in September 1996.

    Mary’s goal is that people experience God’s liberating love first-hand in Christian community and bring that liberating love to a world desperate to receive it.

    Mary's vision for Trinity:

    People will know that Jesus is alive by the way we love one another, especially the unloved and those in need. 
    We will be transformed by:
         Schooling ourselves in the words and ways of Jesus;
         Simplifying our lives, as a church and in our homes;
         Building relationships with the poor.

  • Pastor Kurt Heineman


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    Kurt was born in the Bay Area but for the most part grew up in Boulder, Colorado. Kurt’s family of origin didn’t regularly attend a church while he was growing up. His life was forever changed as a teenager during his first visit to a youth group meeting at First Presbyterian Church in Boulder. After hearing the gospel for the first time that night, Kurt decided to follow Jesus.
    Kurt received his Bachelor of Arts from the University of Puget Sound in Science, Technology and Society and his Master of Divinity from Princeton Theological Seminary. Kurt first sensed his call to ordained ministry in the PC(USA) during an internship where he worked for the Rev. Earl F. Palmer as his Study Assistant.
    Kurt began his ministry at Trinity in January 2015. Kurt focuses his energy around Trinity’s three main priorities of Sticky Faith (Youth Ministry), Connections, and developing a strategy for Faith Formation of all ages.
    Kurt is married to his wife Katie who recently graduated from the University of Washington at the end of 2014 with a Master of Occupational Therapy. Kurt and Katie love playing sports, hiking and camping, traveling, watching great movies, and spending time with friends and family.

  • Kristan Verveniotis

    Director of Music, Worship, Children and Families

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    Kristan has been a member of Trinity for more than 25 years and is excited to be a part of Trinity’s staff.

    Leading groups of people has always been a part of Kristan’s life whether it is at work, home, school or church. After receiving her Bachelor of Music degree in Music Therapy at Arizona State University, she set to work engaging people of all ages in music and learning experiences. Since coming to Trinity in 1989 she has been heavily involved in music and worship, which are her great joys! Over the years, she has also been involved in leadership for Seniors Ministry, Vacation Bible School, Middle School ministry, Long Range Planning, Trillium Vocal Trio and Joyful Noise children’s choir. In 2013, she completed the San Franciso Presbytery's Commissioned Ruling Elder training.

    In 2008,  Kristan felt called to serve as Director of Children's Ministry at Trinity. In 2014 the role of Worship Coordinator to her job description and in 2016 personnel created the position of Music, Worship, Children and Family Ministry Director to reflect Trinity's collaborative ministry.

    Kristan lives in San Carlos with her husband Paul. They are grateful for the blessings of their extended Trinity family in the raising of their two daughters, Nicole and Eleni who currently live out of the area. She and Paul are active in the Coast Guard Auxiliary and enjoy music, exotic food, boating, camping and just about anything outdoors.

  • Jenny Waddell

    Preschool Director

    Jenny Waddell first was introduced to Trinity Preschool  in 2007 when her oldest daughter was in the Threes class. Since then all three of her children have attended the preschool with the youngest in the Threes class this year.  Jenny holds a Multiple Subject Teaching Credential and taught first grade in Atherton for 13 years before deciding to continue her educational career at Trinity. She has been teaching the Threes class for the last two years.

    Jenny is passionate about play based education and is excited to be taking over as Director of the preschool in the fall.

  • Victoria De salles

    Office Manager

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    Victoria was born and raised in San Mateo and still lives there today.  She grew up in the church.  Her brother is a teaching Pastor.

    Victoria was a floral designer for many years, winning two national awards and designing for the Rose Parade.

    Victoria met her husband through a mutual friend and has three boys.  

    She received her bachelors degree from University of Phoenix in business management and loves to read, cook and garden in her spare time.

  • Claudia nadalin

    Administrative Assistant

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    Claudia resides in San Carlos where she raised her two children, Donald and Michelle. A native of San Jose, The Valley of the Heart’s Delight, she lived for a brief period in Sacramento and graduated from San Jose State University.

    She is an active member of the Episcopal Church of the Epiphany in San Carlos and has also served on the Stanford Canterbury Board, serving Episcopal and Lutheran students.

    Recently she began volunteering with Sequoia Village and is meeting many wonderful individuals throughout Belmont, Redwood City, and San Carlos, including delightful Trinity members.

    In addition to volunteering, Claudia spends time with family and friends,  developing her creative interests, travel, and caring for her home.

  • Ian Hamilton

    Parish Associate


    Ian was born and raised in Menlo Park, and became a Christian in college.  He moved to Wisconsin in 1987, raised his family and worked as a pastor in a non-denominational setting, first at Elmbrook Church outside Milwaukee for 8 years, then for another 2 years as a pastor in Dallas, Texas.  For the last 22 years, Ian has been working in the Real Estate industry both in sales and now in Commercial Property Management in Menlo Park.  Ian and his wife Kim have 6 married children between them both and 5 grandchildren as well.  Ian and Kim are grateful to make Trinity their home church, and they look forward to serving with and alongside Trinity in the years to come.   

  • Christine Kagiyama

    We’re pleased to introduce Christine Kagiyama as our new accompanist. She comes to us most recently from Newark Presbyterian where she has served for several years. Originally from Korean she grew up playing music in the Presbyterian church where her father is a pastor and her mother a missionary. Christine recently spent a year in Iraq teaching music at an international school. She lives in San Mateo with her husband and two teenage sons and teaches private lessons on the peninsula.

  • Session & Deacons

    Trinity is governed by the Session. The Session is made up of elected Ruling Elders and Trinity's Pastors. The Session meets once a month. For a list of the current elders and their minutes visit their page,

    Trinity's Deacons focus on our ministry of compassion. To learn more about the Deacons visit their page,

  • Ministry Teams & team leaders

    Buildings and Grounds - Tom Finlayson
    Children’s Ministry - Kristan Verveniotis
    Community Outreach - Mike Garoutte
    Connections - Carol Raisner

    Global Outreach - Kathy Kyne
    Leadership & Nominating - Deborah Kemper
    Preschool -  Bernice O'Connor
    Personnel - Drew Schulz & Katie Wechsler
    Stewardship and Finance - Francine Miltenberger

    Spiritual Formation - Phil Hayashida & Karen Stine

    Sticky Faith  - Sara Cowey

    Trinity Foundation - Anne Karasky
    Worship - Gabi Siquenza & Gay Hansten

    If you are interested in learning more about Ministry Teams, what they do, and when they meet send the team lead an email. Their information is available on Trinity's Online Directory. 

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